Boredom isn’t a lack of things to do but an unwillingness to do things we fear.
Especially in relationships. Intimate relationships, friendships, co-workers and family all can fall into the rut that’s too easy and stale. Bringing on the boredom.
‘Just spice it up’ is the usual recommendation. And in some cases doing something different will bring a new experience but it’s not always the answer and can create more problems.
Because the problem isn’t variety but….SAFETY.
Neil Statin of Relationship Alive – The New Love Paradigm talks more about that.
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“If you don’t feel safe in your relationship, then you will have a hard time being fully in your relationship.